Getting Hit On

For those of you who had been hit on by both genders, how are they different?

In my experience, the guys tend to be gentle and sweet.
They take their time, ask me out and get to know me.
The conversations are normal and “friendly”.
They keep their distant and it usually tale them awhile to admit how they feel.

But the girls tend to be aggressive.
no no…don’t jump into any conclusion…
I always managed to get away “safely”

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[Message last modified 06-12-2012 07:29am by Kadin]

I’m like a little tiger, no one dear to come near me.

I been hit on by both gender. Not bragging here… Just saying..

guys usually look at me for some times, then try to talk to me, then we become friends, hang out, try to get to know each other…n start from there…
girls tend to use my lack of knowledge that they are lesbians to take advantages of me, they are very touchy and protective..but the minute I know who they are and their intention I run for life..:p

Is it Darony?

[i]Originally posted by Kadin[/i]
For those of you who had been hit on by both genders, how are they different?

In my experience, the guys tend to be gentle and sweet.
They take their time, ask me out and get to know me.
The conversations are normal and “friendly”.
They keep their distant and it usually tale them awhile to admit how they feel.

But the girls tend to be aggressive.
no no…don’t jump into any conclusion…
I always managed to get away “safely”

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[Message last modified 06-12-2012 07:29am by Kadin]

Last time a girl was hitting on my, she was being really sweet. We were just hanging out, and I like her as a friend. She was a bit touchy and joked around a little bit about kissing, but she actually seemed a bit shy. I tried to just not respond, I did not know 100% she was a lesbian, but now I know. I don’t have a problem with that, I just want her to know, I’m straight, so she doesn’t et the wrong impression and ends up being disappointed.

Guys can be pretty annoying when their hitting on you, and your not interested.

I find girls less aggressive and less annoying; most times if you tell them that you don’t swing that way they back off.

Me too hahah, currently theres this security guard at my work who always asking me to go out have dinner and what not.
Its annoying sometime because when i get out of work i just wanna leave asap and go home, but he always stall me in my track and talk with me for like 20 mins or so.

Nice fella, but im not gay.

As for the ladies they usually move quick on me, i met a friend of friend at the clubs and by the end of the night she holding my hands walking around down town.

[i]Originally posted by Kaliboy[/i]
I been hit on by both gender. Not bragging here… Just saying..

[Message last modified 06-12-2012 02:24pm by JackTsang05]

no.

[i]Originally posted by hoja[/i]
Is it Darony?

you look feminine so do get the masculine one? hahah
I don’t look very feminine myself so I get the girly girly one. And they’re not touchy with me.
However, they are demanding and bossy.

this happened recently and i tell you what I mean..
it’s summer in korea. Korean girls like to wear those short short jeans with small t-shirts.

she pulled her shirt tightly against her chest.

her: look!
me: what am I suppose to look at?
her: my boobs.
me: you got nothing. flat like a board. (typical korean)
her:i have some.
me: no you don’t! hahahah
her: You are bad!

a few minutes later

her: my boobs is an opportunity.
me: (no respond and just do my thing).
her: Do you want the opportunity
me: what is the opportunity?
her: I TOLD YOU my boobs is the opportunity
me: (no respond and just do my thing).

i don’t remember what led to this

her:You want to touch my leg?
me: you have nice legs.
her:U want to touch it? TOUCH IT!
me: I think you have work to finish. (moved away from her)

[i]Originally posted by Darony[/i]
guys usually look at me for some times, then try to talk to me, then we become friends, hang out, try to get to know each other…n start from there…
[b]girls tend to use my lack of knowledge that they are lesbians to take advantages of me, they are very touchy and protective.[/b].but the minute I know who they are and their intention I run for life..:p

[Message last modified 06-12-2012 03:42pm by Kadin]

^ hahah thats funny story

She’s not that good with English or slangs.
one time she was not sure which part of her anatomy was a booty or boobs.
so she asked:

her: Kadin, where are my booty and boobs.
me: (point to her butt) that’s you booty and (pointing and skimming across her chest) annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd hmmmmm… you have no boobs.

her: (pulled my hair)

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[i]Originally posted by JackTsang05[/i]
^ hahah thats funny story

Hahah wow, its good thing you are straight or else that would be very awkward.

Like i said before i have this guy from work who hits on me all the time, I feel so awkward talking to him all the time because i think he thinks im gay lol.

Also in movies it seems like Korean girls have average breast sizes, but i guess maybe since they are stars they probably got some work then ha.

wat? do I look like I swing that way? *hammer hoja’s toe*

[i]Originally posted by hoja[/i]
Is it Darony?

if it was strangers, it would be awkward and I would not mess around like that. I’d just make a fast get-away!!!!
but i know this person for a long time and there is a boundary.

you become friends and friendship doesn’t end just because of that. But, there needs to be a boundary.

If i was in your case, I would feel annoyed and find ways to avoid the conversation.
1. leave work with other people.
2. have someone call me at a certain time so i’ll be talking on the phone walking out.
3. or end the conversation by saying I have to rush out because I have to be at a certain place and a certain time right after work EVERY day.

[i]Originally posted by JackTsang05[/i]
Hahah wow, its good thing you are straight or else that would be very awkward.

Like i said before i have this guy from work who hits on me all the time, I feel so awkward talking to him all the time because i think he thinks im gay lol.

[b]Also in movies it seems like Korean girls have average breast sizes, but i guess maybe since they are stars they probably got some work then ha.[/b]

^sometimes surgery isn’t needed. They have special bras and cushions…there are plenty of products out there that can make a girl’s chest “appear” bigger.

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[Message last modified 06-12-2012 04:48pm by Kadin]

Oy yoy! I’m sorry. Just joking.

[i]Originally posted by Darony[/i]
wat? do I look like I swing that way? *hammer hoja’s toe*
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[i]Originally posted by hoja[/i]
Is it Darony?

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I can’t tell when someone is trying to hit on me. I just think people are being friendly. I’ve been told many times that I lead people on because I like to reciprocate. If someone is nice to me, I’m going to be nice to them.
Men/women are equally smooth/aggressive. However, my reaction to them are different. I always feel so much more violated and betrayed when a woman takes advantage of naiveté. I get dry heaves lol. Like how could? We’re supposed to be on the same side!

I don’t know how you could put up with this woman Kadin. You must be extremely patient. You do not pull my hair unless you’re my man, or you want to get punched in the face. I would’ve kicked her ass.

[i]Originally posted by Kadin[/i]
She’s not that good with English or slangs.
one time she was not sure which part of her anatomy was a booty or boobs.
so she asked:

her: Kadin, where are my booty and boobs.
me: (point to her butt) that’s you booty and (pointing and skimming across her chest) annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd hmmmmm… you have no boobs.

her: (pulled my hair)

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[i]Originally posted by JackTsang05[/i]
^ hahah thats funny story

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hahahah…I wasn’t nice first.

[i]Originally posted by linnnie[/i]
I don’t know how you could put up with this woman Kadin. You must be extremely patient. You do not pull my hair unless you’re my man, or you want to get punched in the face. I would’ve kicked her ass.
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[i]Originally posted by Kadin[/i]
She’s not that good with English or slangs.
one time she was not sure which part of her anatomy was a booty or boobs.
so she asked:

her: Kadin, where are my booty and boobs.
me: (point to her butt) that’s you booty and (pointing and skimming across her chest) annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd hmmmmm… you have no boobs.

her: (pulled my hair)

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[i]Originally posted by JackTsang05[/i]
^ hahah thats funny story

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Love makes you put up with everything.

[i]Originally posted by linnnie[/i]
I don’t know how you could put up with this woman Kadin. You must be extremely patient. You do not pull my hair unless you’re my man, or you want to get punched in the face. I would’ve kicked her ass.
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[i]Originally posted by Kadin[/i]
She’s not that good with English or slangs.
one time she was not sure which part of her anatomy was a booty or boobs.
so she asked:

her: Kadin, where are my booty and boobs.
me: (point to her butt) that’s you booty and (pointing and skimming across her chest) annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd hmmmmm… you have no boobs.

her: (pulled my hair)

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[i]Originally posted by JackTsang05[/i]
^ hahah thats funny story

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You know i can defintely relate to that. I was in love once, gave it my all and got shun because i didnt leave them enough space to breath.

[i]Originally posted by hoja[/i]
Love makes you put up with everything.

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[i]Originally posted by linnnie[/i]
I don’t know how you could put up with this woman Kadin. You must be extremely patient. You do not pull my hair unless you’re my man, or you want to get punched in the face. I would’ve kicked her ass.
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[i]Originally posted by Kadin[/i]
She’s not that good with English or slangs.
one time she was not sure which part of her anatomy was a booty or boobs.
so she asked:

her: Kadin, where are my booty and boobs.
me: (point to her butt) that’s you booty and (pointing and skimming across her chest) annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd hmmmmm… you have no boobs.

her: (pulled my hair)

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[i]Originally posted by JackTsang05[/i]
^ hahah thats funny story

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Stay away from these two Jack. My toe is broken by Darony the other day:D Kadin sure will pull my hair too:D

[i]Originally posted by JackTsang05[/i]
You know i can defintely relate to that. I was in love once, gave it my all and got shun because i didnt leave them enough space to breath.
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[i]Originally posted by hoja[/i]
Love makes you put up with everything.

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[i]Originally posted by linnnie[/i]
I don’t know how you could put up with this woman Kadin. You must be extremely patient. You do not pull my hair unless you’re my man, or you want to get punched in the face. I would’ve kicked her ass.
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[i]Originally posted by Kadin[/i]
She’s not that good with English or slangs.
one time she was not sure which part of her anatomy was a booty or boobs.
so she asked:

her: Kadin, where are my booty and boobs.
me: (point to her butt) that’s you booty and (pointing and skimming across her chest) annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd hmmmmm… you have no boobs.

her: (pulled my hair)

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[i]Originally posted by JackTsang05[/i]
^ hahah thats funny story

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sorry but I don’t pull hair

well, i just punch them right back, not matter the sex. i prefer punching girls, they’re usually easier to deal with due to their smaller size.

Yesterday I was at a bar with friends, sitting on this really comfortable sofa, feeling sleepy, just listening to the music and this guy sits down next to me, really close with his legs touching mine. So I said to him: Can I have some more space and less body contact?

He looked a bit confused and moved away.