Giving away your VIRGINITY

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  • #183182
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    Gurlz value their virginity more than guys. When they give it up, it means a lot to them (or it should mean a lot to them). They tend to give not just their virginity but all the love they can give to their first guy. So, what does it take for a gurl to give it up?

    i really think sexual intercourse is a sacred thing. it’s something that you can only give to one person in your lifetime. there should be a lot of thinking and considerations before deciding on wheather or not sexual intercourse is appropriate.

    part II to be continue…

    #183196
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    it takes a kewl guy like me to get into women’s panties *wink wink*

    #183208
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    [i]Originally posted by bebunlong[/i]
    it takes a kewl guy like me to get into women’s panties *wink wink*

    and a $20 Bill?

    #183219
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    naw $100 fool i only take the best

    #183232
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    A cool slightly Bad boy with a car and a sixpack!
    or a nice guy who she has convinced HERSELF is Mr Right… and later declares him a pig among pigs.. oink!

    #183245
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    for some gurls..all it takes are ragin hormones..or maybe they were drunk or high n were taken advantaged of..

    for gurls who value their virginity, they give because of love..whether they really were in love, or they just wanted to convince themselves it was love..her virginity is her ultimate gift..

    sometimes she gives for the wrong reason..i.e. to keep him around..thinkin if she doesnt give it up, hes goin to leave her for someone who will…

    are guys as emotionally attached to their virginity as gurls are..?

    #183260
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    [i]Originally posted by Kekriya[/i]

    are guys as emotionally attached to their virginity as gurls are..?

    Some guys.

    #183273
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    Yup i totally agree

    Hmmmmm…..some r young and get confused w/ love `n think that w/ what’s so called “love” comes sex. Am talking about 13, 14 yr olds here

    Ohhhh……there r some guyz who are emotionally attatched to their virginity:P

    [i]Originally posted by Kekriya[/i]
    for some gurls..all it takes are ragin hormones..or maybe they were drunk or high n were taken advantaged of..

    for gurls who value their virginity, they give because of love..whether they really were in love, or they just wanted to convince themselves it was love..her virginity is her ultimate gift..

    sometimes she gives for the wrong reason..i.e. to keep him around..thinkin if she doesnt give it up, hes goin to leave her for someone who will…

    are guys as emotionally attached to their virginity as gurls are..?

    #183286
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    Guys are more proned to try and get Rid of their virginity. To us it’s a sign of still being a boy vs adult. I’ve asked a lot of girls about it and most said they got drunk cuz they knew it would hurt .

    #183299
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    Kekriya… I’m right with yah!

    #183310
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    There are some guys out there that value their virginity a lot also! *COUGH* *COUGH* *SNEEZE*

    #183322
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    [i]Originally posted by PeteRock[/i]
    There are some guys out there that value their virginity a lot also! *COUGH* *COUGH* *SNEEZE*

    Oh Buddha bless you Pete!

    #183335
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    Some females can take it just like a dude can…a female can be just sexually attracted to the guy, and not want and any strings attached. Or she might really like him, and want him to have her V…it doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s giving him all of her love or herself…but you’re right females do value their virginity more than guys do…but some just don’t care.

    #183348
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    yes miss i don’t know why the myth of girls not wanting it as much as men persists.. they innitiate it just like men do in their own more subtle seductive ways, but non the less they need it too cuz deep down we are all sexual beings on a core level. Thank heavans!!!

    #183361
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    i’m down w/saving it for the one i love and of course that love of mines will be for my future hubby. =)

    #183373
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    losing my virginity?? aahha u kidding me..!!! hell nah. As for me i want to lose it wit someone i really love and know dat i will spend the rest of my life wit. As for other i guess is just playing game to lose theirs but its none of my problem.

    [ khmerpride II da fullest ]

    #183386
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    i pay for her at dinner in hong kong china i buy some snake cow meat chinese chinken that will be a $1000.00 there

    #183399
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    girls are stupid. they want to give it to one guy. most likely
    theyll end up giving to atleast 3 . guys atleast aint afraid to admit hes a freak. or if he is. he’ll try to cover it up. jsut to sleep with a girl who also wants a virgin. girls are the sickest.. once u get em started.i swear some of the things they got in mind. are sinful..
    as if i am a man of religion..men jsut wanna hit it and run.. girls.. want you to play with em for how long? a man is not made from batteries you know.. a man cannot hold your hands and go shopping for hours…

    [Message last modified 05-20-2002 03:48pm by observer1]

    #183414
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    I cannot say whether I am a virgin or not… merely because of the fact that I do not like to “boast” about being a virgin and nor do I like to tell the whole world about not being one. But what I can say is that my virginity is very sacred/valuable to me; it is priceless. It is something that can only be release through the pure and innocent feeling of “love” in depth of the heart. Of course, I cannot speak for all of my gender-kind. Each female [person] set different values for their virginity. The extreme few do not see the value in it at all… while the opposite extreme few value it more than life itself. And of course there are people who are somewhere in between the two extremes.

    But that still does not answer Godot’s question, huh? Heheeh! Godot, you should be patient and an aphrodite will come your way and sweep you off your feet with the unexpected capacity of her love for you. You will fall deeply in love, and she will too. And that is when the magic will happen. Ta-da! Well okay, maybe things are not as easy as that. Well, you would have to win her heart in the most honest and trutful way. Sex shouldn’t just happen. You’d have to work and build your way up within a relationship, and when the time is right… it will happen. And when it happen, it should mean a lot to you. Is that answer good enough for you? It’s a very straight-forward answer, and it is perhaps the most reasonable and morally ethical type of answer you can get. You cannot just go around and have casual sex with anybody… right, Tony? *ahem* Sexual intercourse should be something “special.”

    And of course… I am aware that Pete very much values his virginity although he likes to devirginize people’s guestbook…*smiles* LoLzzz.. I’m sorry Pete, just giving you a hard time. Well, I’m pretty sure that you will not take other girl‘s virginity for granted since you value yours. Ha-ha! Anyway, take your time…the right girl will come along someday. Wait, why am I telling you this? You’re the master of such lecture. I mean after all… you ARE a VIRGIN. Just helping you out with the emphasis of you being the virgin dude. Heeh! Okay…I’m rambling. Bye now.

    #183429
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    [i]Originally posted by observer1[/i]
    girls are stupid. they want to give it to one guy. most likely
    theyll end up giving to atleast 3 . guys atleast aint afraid to admit hes a freak. or if he is. he’ll try to cover it up. jsut to sleep with a girl who also wants a virgin. girls are the sickest.. once u get em started.i swear some of the things they got in mind. are sinful..
    as if i am a man of religion..men jsut wanna hit it and run.. girls.. want you to play with em for how long? a man is not made from batteries you know.. a man cannot hold your hands and go shopping for hours…

    [Message last modified 05-20-2002 03:48pm by observer1]

    Girls are NOT stupid! Girls are very innocent at heart, so you cannot just blame all girls in general to be “stupid”. It is the heartless guys who put them in such position to end up giving it up to at least 3 or however many. Most guys, not all guys, usually contradicts themselves just because they have it easier with the whole “virginity” thing. Plus, such guys DO NOT value their own to begin with! Observer1… you need to reconsider your statement of generalizing ALL girls as well as putting the blame on them. There are a few girls out there who actually are, perhaps, what you describe them to be because of the fact that maybe they are one of those extremist who DO NOT value their virginity at all. But to label a girl who, is out of all honesty, gives her innocent love along with the virginity…stupid is very unfair. If you label them “stupid” then how shall the guys who betrayed their innocence be labeled as? I personally believe that the girl who lost her virginity out of innocent love weighs more than the guy who took advantage of it and betrayed her. I’m not taking any gender sides, because I’d say the same if it was vice versa. Arrggghhh… I hate arguing… it never gets anywhere. Bye.

    #183442
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    Many times, guys “trick” young and nimble minded girls into giving their precious virginity away. That’s sad, sorry for getting off topic.

    #183453
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    [i]Originally posted by Khmer_Ryder[/i]
    Many times, guys “trick” young and nimble minded girls into giving their precious virginity away. That’s sad, sorry for getting off topic.

    For that, you should be spank :D

    #183466
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    sometimes i get confused too. i don’t know what to think or how to react when your guy want to sleep with you. but the problem is giving it up. should you keep it until marriage? or should you give it because of love? it is so hard to decide, especially when you are raised in a traditional family….a family who raises you to be pure and good in every way. but in this society, how could anyone hold off sex when the guy they love mean so much? but because of value and respect….people have to control their hormonal urges.:)the only thing that kept me away from giving it up is that i believe in giving something special to the guy whom i marry because he deserve something more than love. if he is willing to marry me and take care of me and have a family, then he should deserve something really special on the wedding night. i know that a guy would really appreciate and respect you more if you are still a virgin because all guys would prefer a virgin, but since society is kind of lopsided, guys would settle for a loving relationship without thinking about the past.:)

    #183481
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    [i]Originally posted by KHMER50[/i]
    i pay for her at dinner in hong kong china i buy some snake cow meat chinese chinken that will be a $1000.00 there

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    What is a snake cow meat chinese chinken?

    What is snake cow meat anyway?

    i dont know but i like it
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    [Message last modified 05-23-2002 09:03pm by kangivong]

    #183496
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    hey i don’t have causal sex with just anyone, my virginity is sacred also. Sex is something that would share with someone i love.

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