Sex vs. Abstinence????????????

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  • #3572
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    kitryna
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    Well , well, after reading what khmernutz wrote. I feel sad. Why are young khmer people having sex!!!!Females or males!!! IT DOESN’T MATTER OKAY. YOU MUST KEEP YOURSELF PURE UNTIL MARRIAGE. YOU DON’T HAVE TO TAKE MY WORD FOR IT, BUT RESPECT YOURSELF and your body OKAY. MY THOUGHTS ON SEX, i think sex is a gift. It should not just be given to any man that easily, i think it is something that is worth waiting to give to the man you wed. Cambodian girls like me are brought up to stay pure until marriage. My parents emphasize that since I was little. They told me i am very precious jewel. I love my body and I respect myself. I think ABSTINENCE IS THE BEST THING. 100% AFFECTIVE AGAIN ALL STD’S AND AIDS. whY put yourself at risk especially in college, it’s disgusting to see so many people having sex as if it’s something casual. And girls out there, if a guy really loves you, he will be willing to wait. GUys, what is more valueable to you , love or sex?? I think most guys would answer love. Who wouldn’t want love. So girls, think before you get in bed with guy. IS it worth it?? What are the consequences?? Any regrets afterwards?? Pregancy??? Unprotected sex can result in pregnancy that easily!!!! There will only be a first time!!!!So believe me,the wait is worth it. That’s just MY THOUGHT I don’t want to offend anyone. Guys, same goes for you okay.

    PURE UNTIL MARRIAGE,
    kITryNA

    #3591
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    Kim
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    You sure are keeping yourself busy on our boards. If only our other members followed in your footsteps. : ) As for your topic, I have this to say. Sex does not guarantee love. What it can guarantee is a surprise 9 months later. So preach on Kit!! Well I would love to expand on my thoughts but it is Friday night and it’s calling my name. A reva derche KC’ers. Go have fun!!!!!

    “How many times have I laid at night waiting for you to say the word”

    #3608
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    observer1
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    muahaha.. i thought that i was good at making jokes.. but apparently kitryna is a lot better..:)

    #3624
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    speed24get
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    sex is a wedding gift from god so don’t unwrap that gift yet until it’s time, okay? hehe

    #3642
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    I’m a virgin myself, and i totally support the fact that you’re gonna save yourself for marriage, but then again, i’mma save myself for love or marriage, but love definitely comes first…It’s hard being a virgin, not because girls are just throwing themselves at me left and right, but because of “the look” that people give me when i tell them that i’m a virgin…i hate that look, haha…anyways, pete has spoken…-Pete-

    #3658
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    AznSillyBrat
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    Sex vs. Abstinence

    Well, being abstinence is good b/c no sex and no baby too. I agree with all the khmer sreys in her. Do you know about safe sex???? Ladies who read my reply can you tell me? Do your mom ever tell you about birth control pills or any other safe sex method. I Guess Not!!!! As for us in this new generation that grew up in U.S parents tent to hide about talking to their children about sex. They think that it disrespectful. Ladies who prefre to have sex they are more careful then ladies that never. That why many teenage khmer girls get marry at a very young b/c of not knowing how to protect themself then wake up being pregnant the next day. Do you agree with me???

    #3674
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    [i]Originally posted by PeteRock[/i]
    [b]I’m a virgin myself, and i totally support the fact that you’re gonna save yourself for marriage, but then again, i’mma save myself for love or marriage, but love definitely comes first…It’s hard being a virgin, not because girls are just throwing themselves at me left and right, but because of “the look” that people give me when i tell them that i’m a virgin…i hate that look, haha…anyways, pete has spoken…-Pete-[/b]

    A virgin this dawn age. Let me guess you r a Homosexual. Girls throwing themselves at you left and right and you didn’t do anythings about it you must be a Homo.GAy bar scene man!!!Gay bar!!

    #3691
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    [i]Originally posted by tsoun[/i]
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    A virgin this dawn age. Let me guess you r a Homosexual. Girls throwing themselves at you left and right and you didn’t do anythings about it you must be a Homo.GAy bar scene man!!!Gay bar!![/b]

    Ya know, I for one respect PeteRock’s decision to abstain from having sex.
    The choice to engage in sexual intercourse is a personal one that each of us must make for ourselves according to our own morals and code of ethics. No one has the right to place judgement or criticism on others for the choices that they do make because it’s their life…not yours. Calling him a homosexual is both an insult to him and to actual gay people. You’re implying that being gay is a negative thing that society shuns upon. People who think like you do are responsible for the proliferation and resiliency of these narrow-minded prejudices.

    Sex means different things to different people. Some casually give it away to any willing party like coupons from the Sunday paper. Others, like Pete and I, choose to romanticize it, elevating sex to something more intimate and meaningful than a random romp in the hay. And there are others who are just straight out paranoid of the mere thought of getting naked. All of these categories exist in people…and neither of these is superior to the other…nor are any of them right or wrong per se. The only person who can make that judgement call is the individual. If you’ve found someone who you want to give your virginity to, then that’s awesome, more power to you because you made that call. If you wanna have sex like bunnies with anyTHING that has the necessary “equipment”, fine, it’s up to you and is therefore of no consequence to me. Indulge all you like, so long as it’s consensual. But don’t turn around and ridicule others for their decisions. Reciprocity is the core of respect.

    If someone chooses to wait, it doesn’t belittle their manhood in any way, if anything, it probably asserts it that much more. Who do you think is the stronger person….one who succumbs to all temptation, regardless of the source (I stress the word, REGARDLESS). Or the one who can wield his self-control thereby solidifying his adherence to his convictions. Both are equally as attracted and horny…but one is definitely testing himself to a greater degree…saving the experience for someone he feels that he can share that act with. For those of you men and women out there who’ve been in those hot and heavily passionate situations where sex was imminent…it’s totally a hard thing to back away from. It really challenges your resolve.

    So no more of this “you’re a pussy” or “you’re not a man” crap from any of you out there who think less of virgins for their choices. We’re all sexual beings…we just act on our instincts at different times.

    LUCID

    P.s. I have a lot of respect for Pete. He doesn’t drink, smoke, or do drugs.
    Not that people who do those things in moderation are bad people (as a whole, anyways), it’s
    just that I think it’s cool for someone to walk his own path of
    refusal and sobriety. It’s tough…especially in today’s world..

    #3707
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    Redcambino
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    The Year is 2001…they still make guys who are virgins? Amazing, i’ll hump anything that moves. Play on Playa..Play on. Just think of it this way..i’m practicing before i get married. So when i am married my wife won’t cheat on me cuz i suck in bed..it will happen to you. Nice guys finish last..(hey haven’t we discussed that already?)

    #3726
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    Redcambino
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    I’m a virgin too..everytime i meet a new girl..haha i’m so evil..

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