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    Savannah_S
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    Anyone here would be bothered if the person you are going steady with still respond to their ex’s text messages and calling one another terms of endearments such as oun & bong? The guy and his ex broke up 3 yrs ago and the last time they were intimate was June 2010. You and him started dating in September. She still calls him at night ever so often. He doesn’t answer. He left his phone with you one night. The X called and you decided to answer. The X hung up after she heard your voice. Of course you can’t really put all the blame on the X because the guy you are dating probably never had closure with his X. 2 months have flown by. Then comes his birthday.

    Phone convo:
    X: happy birthday. :)
    him: aww how sweet. you remembered!
    X: Of course! Why wouldn’t i. How could I forget someone so special?

    4 months later
    X: Omg bong. My mom is in the hospital.
    him: it’s okay oun. Don’t worry about it.

    is this something to worry about?

    #1225906
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    Darony
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    worry? no, I’d just walk out….sweet talk,oun bong with the ex? please

    Let the Refining and Improving of your own life keep you so busy that you have little time to criticize others
    #1225907
    Avatar of SnowGlobe
    SnowGlobe
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    They ended the relationship 3yrs ago as bf/gf but started another one as NSA (no strings attach) for another 2yrs. Just shows they’re still attached some way, form, or another. The ex-gf still got a hold on him, even if he’s too blind to see it. The girl is not legally committed to him yet, she’s able to walk away and find someone else that will love and respect her feelings.

    #1225909
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    Savannah_S
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    She was dating another guy while she was being intimate with another. He is the go-to guy when she’s stressed over Work & Fam. The girl is the one who deteriorated the relationship. He put his heart and soul into it.

    [i]Originally posted by SnowGlobe[/i]
    she’s able to walk away and find someone else that will love and respect her feelings.

    [Message last modified 11-08-2011 05:18pm by Savannah_S]

    #1225911
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    precious_rose
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    [i]Originally posted by Savannah_S[/i]

    is this something to worry about?

    Yes, there is! More than that, the X and “him” should NOT text/call/speak so often, even as friends. I don’t mind my bf speakign to an X, but it has to be to a minimum. I personally would think He and the X either does NOT have closure, or, he too still has feeling for her and would leave the relationship. I need love and respect. There doesn’t seem to be much repect here, if the bf and X are still in contact quite often. The X, she also should have RESPECT for the new girl friend ( I don’t care if you still love him, it gives you no right to call someone else’s man). Then again, the bf should know better as well and show his GF, not the X, love, RESPECT and attention. To LOVE is to RESPECT. I don’t understand people these days. *huy*:)

    I don’t know the “whole or indept” story behind the these three, so I apologize if I am jumping to conclusion. I have a tendency to do so.lol.

    Wish them luck!:)

    Please, GOD be with ME!:)
    #1225913

    AhSaren
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    Sounds like an Algebra equation.

    #1225915
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    SnowGlobe
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    Dannng are you speaking of the current gf or the X? If its the current gf and he’s just a toy, then kudos to all and have fun messing each other up. If it’s the X…I would seriously punch her out and turn to share the anger with the current bf before I dump his behind and never look back. They deserve each other!

    Whoooa – anger issues today.

    [i]Originally posted by Savannah_S[/i]
    She was dating another guy while she was being intimate with another. He is the go-to guy when she’s stressed over Work & Fam. The girl is the one who deteriorated the relationship. He put his heart and soul into it.
    [quote]
    [i]Originally posted by SnowGlobe[/i]
    she’s able to walk away and find someone else that will love and respect her feelings.

    [Message last modified 11-08-2011 05:18pm by Savannah_S][/quote]

    #1225917
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    sampheap
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    My ex still calls me “Oun” but I call his name instead of calling him “Bong”

    You should talk to your bf and tell him what you like/dislike about him. My husband doesn’t like it when he finds out that my ex still calls me “Oun” I tell him as long as I don’t call him bong then there shouldn’t be a problem! :)

    [Message last modified 11-12-2011 08:15pm by sampheap]

    #1225919
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    Haki
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    YOU ARE MARRIED!

    AWWWWWWWW!!!!! I AM DEVASTATED!!!!! LOL!!!!!

    [i]Originally posted by sampheap[/i]
    My ex still calls me “Oun” but I call his name instead of calling him “Bong”

    You should talk to your bf and tell him what you like/dislike about him. My husband doesn’t like it when he finds out that my ex still calls me “Oun” I tell him as long as I don’t call him bong then there shouldn’t be a problem! :)

    [Message last modified 11-12-2011 08:15pm by sampheap]

    [Message last modified 11-13-2011 11:22am by Haki]

    #1225921
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    sampheap
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    Lol. You’re funny! Yes I’m married :)

    [i]Originally posted by Haki[/i]
    YOU ARE MARRIED!

    AWWWWWWWW!!!!! I AM DEVASTATED!!!!! LOL!!!!!

    [quote]
    [i]Originally posted by sampheap[/i]
    My ex still calls me “Oun” but I call his name instead of calling him “Bong”

    You should talk to your bf and tell him what you like/dislike about him. My husband doesn’t like it when he finds out that my ex still calls me “Oun” I tell him as long as I don’t call him bong then there shouldn’t be a problem! :)

    [Message last modified 11-12-2011 08:15pm by sampheap]

    [Message last modified 11-13-2011 11:22am by Haki][/quote]

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